I'm between RV trips and comfortable in my cool (79°) apartment while a 99° sunny day cooks our area. I've returned from a week at Normandy Farms in Foxboro, MA, and will be returning for a week down at CPP, September 1st through the 7th before traveling to Saco/Old Orchard Beach, Maine. This will be an overnighter before I travel further north to Searsport, Maine to visit my cousin, John and wife, Barbara, in the Penobscot Bay area of Belfast. My return trip back home will have a detour down to Narragansett, RI, where I'll once again stay at Fishermans Memorial State Park to visit my beautiful granddaughter, Sara.
While dealing with a few RV issues, thinking about supplies and menus for the weeks to come and squeezing in visits to Fishkill and Hastings, I'm taking a break to write this blog. I received an email from neighbor, Jack, who reads my blogs. Jack has amassed an amazing memory bank of life experiences from his early days on Bathgate Avenue in the Bronx to the present time relaxing at the Riverfront Green in Peekskill or making new friends fishing off the pier at the end of Louisa Street. An excellent writer and story-teller himself, I've often suggested that he should get those thoughts and experiences into a journal/blog format for the future.
He emailed me after reading about my last trip to Normandy Farms and said he'd gained four pounds just by reading about food. I responded by telling him that food is a very important part of my life; I literally cannot live without it. My eating regimen has paid off, however, last week notwithstanding. I eat during an eight hour time frame; noon till 8:00 pm and fast from 8 pm till noon the next day. I'm pleased with the results even though there was a slight setback last week. When I camped alone down at CPP prior to Foxboro, I lost five pounds in that one week only to gain it back during the next week. Being with friends (in and outside my circle of RV friends) is always rewarding and pleasant. "It's all about the people and having fun!" Note to self: enjoy it but stick to your regimen. And so, I gave thought to what he wrote after reading it two or three times:
"The truth of it all is that your circle of friends in the RV world is far greater than any of us have in the non-RV world. Between that world and the world of food, nature, highways, environment, weather, camp grounds and road traumas with "Winnie" ... not to mention your pristine ability to convey your experiences with the written word is exceptional. I said it before and say again, "YOU ARE BLESSED! And I stand by you, "beyond your small circle of friends!"
Words to ponder for sure. And ponder I did. I don't spend a lot of time looking within with self-reflection in mind; many of us do not. And I don't think many of us give enough thought to what we have, what we're all about or how fortunate we are. It's all taken for granted. Maybe too much time and attention is given to the list of bumps and obstacles on our journey down the road of life, our aches and pains, our traumas, hardships, disappointments and unfortunate circumstances that beset us all and reflect our "half empty glass" complete with "woe is me" filling the other half. I was always of the mind set to simply look around at others to see how nice I have it and how lucky I am. Yes, I am truly blessed. "People say you don't know what you have till you lose it. Truth is, you knew what you had, you just thought you'd never lose it." It's better to know what you have and treat everything and everybody as though someday you will lose it.
So, there you have it. A pep talk for me? Not really. A pep talk for my blog readers? No, not really. Jack's comments in an email triggered it all. When I think of who my blog readers are, I'm content knowing they're all okay and dealing nicely with what life has dealt them. They are intelligent, confident, strong and I thank each of them for including me in their own circle of friends...be it inside or outside the RV world. True friends, it is said, are not only in your circle, but in your corner as well. Thanks for taking the time to read and comment on my blogs.











